Searching for a better way to live

It’s rare for parents to respect their autistic children. Many believe they are respectful; but if you believe that your child is disordered or damaged, how respectful is that really? I live by the Neurodiversity Paradigm. It’s a base of thinking that involves the deep respect of neurodivergent people (which includes autistic people and other […]

A child dances in the shallow water at the beach as the sun sets.

#HowWeDo Respectful Parenting and Support

It’s two years since I first discovered there were other families who questioned the value of pushing neurodivergent children in to boxes they could never fit.  It’s been 22 months since we withdrew my eldest child from kindergarten, and a year since we decided therapists could support us on an as-needs basis only. Somewhere in […]

Travel Our Way

I love to travel. I need to travel. I am privileged to be able to do so on a regular basis. My neurodivergent family has been privileged to take several trips, domestic and international. For us, I’ve found two keys to success: flexibility and leaving all expectations at home. I travelled a fair amount before […]

Walking the path.

We share so much, you and I. Genes, hair colour, the need to touch. We both love to snuggle – Sometimes alone, sometimes whomever is closest.     We share a love of the water. Your inquisitiveness and curious mind matches mine. We have the same skin, Although yours is browned by the sun.   […]

25 Ways to Make Homeschooling More Accessible

Previously I wrote an open letter to the homeschooling community about how there is a widespread lack of support and accommodations for disabled homeschoolers in general. Many people commented in support of the piece, adding that they had had similar experiences, and some even said that they had simply resigned themselves to being excluded. However, there […]