Radical Unschooling – an entire lifestyle shift!

I have written before on Unschooling, which is about trusting that children are born knowing how to learn and about making way for that learning instead of trying to control and manage it. I decided to write this post because a lot of people have expressed interest in Unschooling and about how it plays out […]

Screw your IQ test; you will NOT limit my son

I want to introduce you to my son. Five feet seven inches with dark chocolate skin, even darker eyes, and the sweetest smile you’ve ever seen. He doesn’t say a whole lot, but when he has something to say you can tell he has carefully chosen his words. He feels deeply; he’s the child who, […]

Speech(ie)less

(Note: Speechie is slang for speech pathologist. I couldn’t resist the pun. You’re welcome!) If you’re familiar with my other posts, you’ll know that we don’t really do therapy in our house. If you’re not, well, now you know! There are some quite good reasons for that – mostly to do with the validity of […]

Tips for surviving difficult weeks and months

Tips for surviving difficult weeks and months

Parenting has its ups and downs. Parenting neurodivergent children without supports and in a world made for neurotypical people can feel very overwhelming. You might sometimes struggle with hard weeks that become months that wear you down. Feeling like you are constantly lurching from one family crisis to the next. Feeling like you have no […]

The Worst Thing

It’s been nearly 4 years since NinjaGirl was diagnosed as autistic. I can’t really describe what it was like back then, because it felt like there was so much happening at the time _ we were very busy with small children, I was still dealing with severe PND, we were massively sleep deprived and trying […]

It’s okay

It’s noon and my daughter is dressed in mis-matched pyjama top and bottoms, with unbrushed (never brushed) hair hanging over her eyes. She’s been awake for half an hour. Her bed-time and waking time are very different from most kids her age. It’s okay. My daughter has a very specific list of things she absolutely […]